Reader’s Mail: Unemployed with 2 degrees and 4 certs

Posted by admin 20 January, 2010 (0) Comment

Hi Gilbert!

I came across your site whilst surfing the web for a site for the unemployed.

Briefly about myself … I am 36, Malaysian Chinese, female and resigned in April 2009 from my MYR150k / annum job.   Reason being that I needed a break and the culture of the organisation was doing me no good.  I am still looking for a job (albeit a good job, altho in times like this it is hard to even say that).  During the course of my unemployment I have done 4 papers and gotten 4 certs, worked at MalaysiaKini briefly for about 3 months (but felt I didn’ have the knack for journalism) and am currently working at a marketing job (that’s paying 1/2 of what I used to get).  At the same time, I am sending out my CV to scores of companies (both within KL and Singapore) for within my area of specialism.

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Does Divorce Make People Happy? (Smart Marriage)

Posted by admin 19 January, 2010 (5) Comment

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Does Divorce Make People Happy?
Findings from a Study of Unhappy Marriages

By Linda J. Waite, Don Browning, William J. Doherty, Maggie Gallagher, Ye Luo, and Scott M. Stanley

Call it the “divorce assumption.” Most people assume that a person stuck in a bad marriage has two choices: stay married and miserable or get a divorce and become happier.1 But now come the findings from the first scholarly study ever to test that assumption, and these findings challenge conventional wisdom. Conducted by a team of leading family scholars headed by University of Chicago sociologist Linda Waite, the study found no evidence that unhappily married adults who divorced were typically any happier than unhappily married people who stayed married. 

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My Online ST Forum Letter: Tackling loan-sharking means taking aim at gambling sources too (ST 20 Jan)

Posted by admin 19 January, 2010 (3) Comment

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Jan 20, 2010

Tackling loan-sharking means taking aim at gambling sources too

I REFER to Monday’s commentary, ‘Misplaced sympathy for loan-shark borrowers?’

Indeed, those who approach loan sharks to feed their gambling addiction do not need our sympathy. We have read of how hardcore gamblers end up when the habit is chronic.

Loan sharks feed on the weakness of gamblers to entice them with their high-interest loans, and if we can tackle the addiction of our gamblers, we may have nipped the problem in the bud.

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High infidelity (Asiaone 17 Jan)

Posted by admin 18 January, 2010 (0) Comment
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Sun, Jan 17, 2010

Urban, The Straits Times

High infidelity
by Ian Lee
 
 Actor Jude Law, former United States President Bill Clinton, footballer Ashley Cole, talkshow host David Letterman and the latest addition: golf superstar Tiger Woods. (Read also: For better or for worse)

What do these famous men have in common?

All of them cheated on their girlfriends or wives.

And the effect of these high-profile cheaters on ordinary guys is alarming, say marriage counsellors and psychiatrists here.

Men are thinking it is okay to cheat too.

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Married for three years, hubby not keen to start a family (Asiaone 11 Jan)

Posted by admin 10 January, 2010 (0) Comment
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Mon, Jan 11, 2010

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Married for three years, hubby not keen to start a family
 
  FOUR months after our marriage three years ago, my husband left to outstation. I live with my family and he comes back fortnightly for the weekend.

I feel depressed and lost because my husband is bad-tempered and selfish. He doesn’t respect my feelings or advice and does whatever he wants. When I need him, he’s not there for me. We have lots of arguments because his friends, hobbies and family are his priority.

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Why The Rich Get Richer (Robert Kiyosaki)

Posted by admin 10 January, 2010 (0) Comment

 

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Taking Steps To Prepare For The Worst

Posted on Monday, September 28, 2009, 12:00AM

In Sunday school I was taught the parable of the pharaoh of Egypt and his dream of seven fat cows being eaten by seven skinny cows. Deeply disturbed, the pharaoh sought the interpretation of his dream. A young slave boy interpreted the dream to mean Egypt would have seven years of plenty to be followed by seven years of famine. The message: Prepare for the lean years during the years of plenty. The pharaoh prepared Egypt for the lean years and led it into an era of prosperity.

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S’pore workers put in longest hours: Survey (ST 11 Jan)

Posted by admin 10 January, 2010 (0) Comment

Jan 11, 2010

S’pore workers put in longest hours: Survey

They top international poll of 13 economies; MOM’s figure is 45.9 hours a week for 2008

By Dickson Li

 SINGAPORE’S workers continue to lead the pack when it comes to the number of hours they put in at , according to a report by the International Labour Organisation (ILO).

The report puts them at the top of 13 economies in the group’s Global Wages Report for 2008-09, surpassing even the notoriously hardworking Japanese and Taiwanese.

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What price happiness? (Sunday Times 10 Jan)

Posted by admin 10 January, 2010 (0) Comment

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Jan 10, 2010

What price happiness?

By Irene Tham

 Are Singaporeans happier when they have lots more money?

A study shows that people who have a university or postgraduate qualification and earn $5,000 or more a month are the happiest.

But they are also dissatisfied with their achievements and enjoy life the least, compared with those who are less well-off.

Indeed, it is the Singaporeans earning less than $2,000 a month who enjoy life the most, concluded the three academics behind the study.

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Australia: Killing reveals another kind of race problem (Sydney Morning Herald 9 Jan)

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Ranjodh Singh

Killing reveals another kind of race problem

Nick O’Malley
January 9, 2010 – 12:10AM

RANJODH SINGH died badly. His burnt body was found in a ditch by an orchard-lined road on the outskirts of Griffith. It appears he was burnt where he lay, for the dry, clipped grass at the site is still scorched.

The 25-year-old leaves behind a grieving aunt in Griffith, a wife in Melbourne, parents and a brother in the Punjab region of India. But his murder on December 29 has become part of another, larger, story.

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Job Opening: Customer service officer at Cash Run Pte Ltd (Singapore Part Time Job)

Posted by admin 5 January, 2010 (1) Comment

Customer Service Officer at Cash Run Pte Ltd

Job Description:

Cash Run Pte Ltd is a subsidiary of Cash Run GmbH in Switzerland. Cash Run Pte Ltd was recently incorporated and started its operations in Singapore.

Cash Run deals with online fraud screening services across various payment gateways(e.g. PayPal, Moneybookers etc).

Other than fraud screening services, Cash Run also offers 24 hours online customer to one of her clients and is seeking for customer oriented, young and dynamic individuals to join the team.

You will be required to undergo a paid probation/training period to be confirmed for the position.

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All is not well with the family in S’pore (ST 4 Jan)

Posted by admin 3 January, 2010 (0) Comment

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Jan 4, 2010

All is not well with the family in S’pore

Rise in number of wayward teens show parents need to give them more than cash

By Serene Goh

 FOR three days last week, The Straits Times ran articles on teen criminals. But for every story we write on arson, theft or even rape committed by teens, counsellors have dozens more that are even harder to hear.

These stories of heartbreak concern youths deemed ‘Beyond Parental Control’ (BPC).The label covers not only complaints lodged against youth under 16 who aren’t old enough to be juvenile offenders, but also describes the state of their caregivers, who have thrown up their hands in abject defeat.

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May not be so lucky next time: terrorist plot on US plane (The Daily Telegraph 28 Dec)

Posted by admin 27 December, 2009 (0) Comment
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May not be so lucky next time

Attempted airline terror attack a major intelligence and security failure

05:55 AM Dec 28, 2009
by Sean Rayment THE DAILY TELEGRAPH

TOUGH questions need to be asked of not just the American security agencies – such as the Central Intelligence Agency and the Federal Bureau of Investigation – but also of Britain’s MI6, MI5 and the Metropolitan Police’s counter-terrorist unit.

How can someone whose name appears on a United States law enforcement database, be granted a visa to travel to America, allegedly acquire an explosive device from Yemen, a country awash with Al Qaeda terrorists, and avoid detection from the world’s most sophisticated spy agencies?

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Christmas Message 2009

Posted by admin 23 December, 2009 (1) Comment
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Dear Friends in Transition,
 
Thanks for sharing your life with me this year as Singapore thumbed through a raging recession. I have benefitted from the time spent with some of you who took time to be with me or helped me with some of my  personal ventures. You know who you are out there.
 
Through your , I managed to achieve a few landmark highlights making this year one of the best that I have been through in my whole life. It brought to mind that when one does something for others, the person most blessed is often the giver himself. Ironically, in a year that many wanted to forget, 2009 has remained the best year of my life so far! I hope that next year will be even better.
 
1. First  Book Published – “How to survive unemployment” (Rank Books)
 
I wrote my first  book “How to survive unemployment” and it was published in March 09 by Rank Books. A book launch was subsequently launched and it was attended by well over 100 people. The book is also featured in the press.
 
The books were rather well received and a total of 700 copies were sold either through the public book stores or privately. Many were also bought up by well wishers for distribution to the jobless people in jobfairs. An electronic version of the book is being distributed free of charge to the jobless upon request. A Chinese version is now available too.
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2. A Blog site Launched – Transitioning.org
 
To help the many jobless people cope with unemployment this year, I launched a blogsite “Transitioning.org” in Jan 09. We provide online/face to face counselling and group activities free of charge. More than 100 people have approached us  for assistance so far.  We have also given small amount of cash to the chronic ones.  We also conducted bi-monthly networking sessions whereby the unemployed come together and network with one another. So far, six of such sessions were held and a total of fifty people have benefitted from such gathering.  Three series of group sessions were also conducted and they were attended by about thirty people. The blog is being featured in the local press, Channel News Asia, BBC, Readers Digest among others. We also received many letters from readers who were retrenched this year and some of the stories brought tears to my eyes.  I have, with their permission, published some on the blog for all to view. I am glad to annouce though that most of these readers whom I have tracked have found already. Congratulations to them!
 
We were also approached to give talks to the unemployed during jobfairs and other occasions. It was a good time for us to motivate many jobless people during such talks. I want to take this opportunity to thank all my volunteer counsellors for providing online and face to face counselling. Your services are most appreciated. Keep up the good !
 
3. Sydney
 
My family also stays in Sydney long term now as my wife is being posted overseas. It was a major shift for us as we miss friends and family members back home.
 
It was a tough time adjusting to a totally new environment for us though we revel in the blue sky and extensive space there. Having journeyed  home thrice this year, I realised that many people are rather unhappy with the overcrowdedness and the situation. It was indeed be a blessing in disguise for us.
 
Once again, I want to thank many out there who either lent me a helping hand or a listening ear. Being someone who cherishes friendship, I also want to be the person for you if you need a helping hand.
For those who are still jobless now, stay strong and be hopeful. Remember that all this is a transitional period – it never lasts forever. Do and enjoy the simple things in life. Never stop learning and upgrading to stay employable!
 
Thanks again and have a blessed Christmas all! We all will learn something from both the good and bad times of our life. Let us hope for a better 2010!
 
Regds
Gilbert

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Where to put your money next year (Sunday Times 20 Dec)

Posted by admin 20 December, 2009 (1) Comment

Where to put your money next year

The world economy has got off the deathbed but its recovery in the year ahead will be sluggish. Gabriel Chen gets tips from financial experts for 2010 and finds out where the traps might be.

Tips from experts

Dr Mark Mobius, chairman of Templeton Asset Management:

‘We believe commodities will continue to do well, and that includes gold. Commodity stocks look good because we expect the global demand for commodities to continue its long-term growth. To keep pace with domestic consumption, commodity prices will remain positive and though they will fluctuate from time to time, the overall trend globally is upwards.’

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A Year of Trials and Triumphs (ST 19 Dec)

Posted by admin 18 December, 2009 (0) Comment

Dec 19, 2009

BATTLES OF 2009

A year of trials and triumphs

If you imagine the Singapore scene as a boxing ring, what would you say were the biggest matches to enthrall, excite and exasperate Singaporeans this year? Today, we review 2009 – in five bouts. Enjoy.

By Nur Dianah Suhaimi

 BOUT ONE

SINGAPORE VS RECESSION

NO DOUBT about it, this was the bout that hogged the headlines – Singapore pitted against Recession, the fearsome superheavyweight that threatened to deliver the sucker punch.

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