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Monday May 20th 2013

Singaporean woman migrated to Adelaide in search of a more balanced lifestyle

We continued our second part of the series on Singaporeans migrating overseas either for work or personal reasons.

In this online interview, we  featured Jenny  -  a successful human resource specialist who is now living in Adelaide Australia on her own and loving the experience…

Tell us  abit about yourself e.g. personal particulars, educational qualification,  work experience.

I graduated from  University of Tasmania in Business Administration with a major in Human Resource Management in 2001.  I returned to Singapore and found  work  in the HR field.  I really enjoyed my 2 years as a contractor  working in a HR environment  although I spent almost 10 hours daily at  the workplace.   Though I liked the work,  I could not stand the long working hours and decided to make a move abroad in search of a more balanced lifestyle.

Where are you living now and why do you choose that location?

I am now living in South Australia – Adelaide. I love the peaceful and quiet life here which is very different from bustling Singapore. There is hardly anyone walking on the streets after dark and you have more time on your own. You can literally smell the roses here!

Did you face any adjustment problem initially when you make the move? Any regrets so  far?

I was lost when I first arrived alone in Adelaide a few years ago.  I was confused and worried. I arrived during the winter period and  was trying to adapt to the cold winter.  I had a sleepless night because  it was freezing cold without any heater on my first night here.   I was also worried that I could not find work readily available as I am a foreigner here.  

Things are extremely expensive  and   life would be miserable if I could not get a job soon.   I believe that this is part and parcel of the  experience faced by any  migrant  moving to a foreign land all on your own. I also do not know of anyone  who could help me around then.   

I took  it as one of life’s major   challenge and  have never regretted my decision to move abroad on my own.

How is the family coping currently? Are they happy or do they want to move back to Singapore?

Not applicable as I am still single but there is some resistance from my mum who always asked me to visit her more or even move back to Singapore permanently! I guess she missed me much when I moved overseas.

What precious lessons did you learn from living abroad? Will you do it again if given the choice?

Independent, learn to take challenges, making  your own decision,  solving  problem creatively and trying to survive cheerfully!  All  problems that I have encountered, while living abroad, are in fact challenges in life whereby I learned how to be  to be more adaptive and resilient. I also need to think out of the box to solve problems on my own.

Was it difficult to get jobs while staying abroad? Describe your job search experience and how different  is it from Singapore?

When I first started my job hunt, it was a nightmare.  Thinking my relevant experience in HR would give me the advantage that led me to the same kind of job –  I was wrong.  The culture and the way things work here are  somewhat  different from back home.

 I applied job online daily and registered myself with many recruitment agencies   I was so desperate that I wouldn’t mind working as a cleaner back then! 

 Eventually, I landed myself a  temporary position in the public sector after 4.5 months of job search through a recruitment agency.  Once I have the relevant  local work experience, looking for the  next job was much easier. 

Job  hunting here is very much different from Singapore -  employers here  don’t really look at your educational certificate and everything is based on trust and honestly. Of course, you must have the relevant work experience.

Do you want to return to Singapore eventually or prefer to settle down in your new place permanently?

After I have gone through all these years to set up and establish myself here, I would consider Australia i my home.  I would want to live in Australia permanently if I have a choice.

What are your main reasons for moving overseas?

  1. To lead a relaxed and peaceful life with lots of freedom and time on my own.
  2.  To achieve a  balanced lifestyle involving my  work and social life.
  3. To gain independence and most importantly, to have self confidence to overcome any obstacle in life. 

What is your advice for  Singaporean migrants who have newly move abroad?

I  would encourage them not to be afraid and always think positively in life.  Take life as a  challenge rather than  as a problem.  There is a will, there is always a way and nothing is impossible. 

Lots of patience are also  needed and my motto is:  “Never give up and fight on till you have done your best.”

End of interview and thank you.

Editor’s Note: Singaporeans who have migrated and want to be featured here can email me at gilbert@transitioning.org.  Thank you.

Reader Feedback

15 Responses to “Singaporean woman migrated to Adelaide in search of a more balanced lifestyle”

  1. patriot says:

    My late father told me that he came to Sin EMPTY HANDED at the young age of fourteen and uneducated, to seek peace and happiness.

    Younger Singaporeans preferably should have such spirit to live a more fulfilling life by searching for better environments.

    patriot

  2. The Independence says:

    Jenny, I can empathy with you as I also did the same few years back moving to Canada. And i was to Sg and went to China and work. I really enjoy those time in canada (imagine it was really s silent and snow white night on christmas eve and snowing thr christmas day) although i went through a lot hardship similiar to yours , brutal winter like worry about no incomes, i eventually work as a PT delivery staff, midnight shift in a SME with emigrants from all over the whole. Eventually I passed my real estate course but due to some personal reason i came back to SG. But shortly i went to China to work.
    Even in China which is so crowded , it is more interesting, and i can always take a domestic flight to explore other cities, etc.

    I enjoy working and living abroad and just visit Singapore when i have my holidays.

    It is a pity i felt for many Singaporeans who slog so much in the office to pay bills, paying the banks for exorbitant housing and no work-life balance.

    • Jenny says:

      I reckon there are many who wants to leave the country but just helpless therefore, I consider myself fortunate to be able to seized the opportunity to do so.

      Are you living aboard now or back to Singapore?

    • tarenn says:

      Don’t pity us.
      We are just so grateful to be living in a world-class country, paying world-class salaries to our world-class politicians. As for work-life balance, we do work with the balance of our lives.

  3. Rahman says:

    Hi, Nice advice. Wonder if there are many Singaporean in Adelaide. I am coming over toAdelaide in November for good with my family

    • Jenny says:

      Hi Rahman

      You should be in ADL by now. There are quite a number of s’porean living here. Let me know if you need other assistant. I will try my best to assist you. Thank you

  4. zareenahuz says:

    Hi Rahman,

    Need some advice too. Can you pm me?

  5. Rahman says:

    Hi Zareen,
    Get back to me then.
    Fiind Rahman Paei in Facebook

  6. Ray says:

    Been thru holding 3 jobs, to support a family of 4 & paying off the S’pore mortgage. Now going 60′s. Finally decided to rest my tired bone with CPF & some saving to Johor by age 63. Found a very affordable, guarded & gated Hillside home. Just only a 20mins drive to CIQ & I will be home to see my Grand Kids & Friends. Treasure my prize after 40 yrs as a workhorse. Hope the fresh air, lower cost of living is as good as in NZ, Canada or Australia.

  7. Thomas says:

    hi all, if you are a Singaporean living in adelaide or planning to migrate to adelaide (or any part of Oz), please join me on my FB “close group” called Singapore Kopitiam (Australia) for causal chat and know fellow singaporeans living here.
    or otherwise, join FB group called Singapore Club in Australia. i’m one of the admin too.
    cheers.

  8. Rosalie Farrer says:

    I am a babywearer, mostly for the convenience of having my baby on my person instead of lugging a stroller around, but the bonding time is a great benefit! I suffered with the Bjorn all through my first child’s infancy, but found the back strain progressed to intolerable by the time she 12-15 lbs.

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